Child Arrangements – Mediation and What Happens Next
Mediation is the vital starting point for resolving child arrangements. It provides a calm, neutral environment where parents can discuss their child's needs and reach a mutual understanding. Once an agreement is reached, you have the choice between formalising it through a clear, flexible Parenting Plan or applying for a legally binding Consent Order to ensure long-term stability.
A neutral mediator helps parents discuss child arrangements calmly.
The couple signing a mutual Parenting Plan to ensure stability.
Formalising the agreement with a Consent Order approved by a judge.
Turning Your Mediated Agreement Into a Parenting Plan
A Parenting Plan is a clear, written record of how you will care for your children. It transforms successful mediation into a practical roadmap for the future, providing stability and clarity for both parents and children.
What the plan covers
- Living arrangements and shared overnight schedules
- Holiday rotations and special occasion planning
- Education, healthcare, and religious upbringing decisions
- Communication protocols between parents
- Processes for reviewing and updating the plan as children grow
Applying for a Legally Binding Consent Order
Mediation provides the foundation, but a Consent Order provides the legal security. Once mediation is complete, this formal step makes your agreement enforceable by the court, offering peace of mind for the future.
01
Draft the Agreement
The mediator drafts a Memorandum of Understanding outlining all terms settled during your joint sessions.
02
Legal Review
A solicitor transforms the agreement into a formal draft order, ensuring all legal requirements are met for the court.
03
Court Approval
Once signed by both parties, the order is sent to a judge to be sealed, making it a legally binding document.